Back in 2016, when I was gearing up to get married, I happened to be part of many conversations that were a little confusing. At that point, I also penned down my thoughts in a blog "You're Getting Married?!" . Ever since, I've been observing conversations, patterns, and its implications with a lot more attention - just for me to make sense of it. A lot of the things said and done these days under the tag of sense of humor feels very unsettling to me - naive or snarky is what they happen to be more than often. From early on as a child, the idea of raising a kid came very naturally to me. Over the years I grew up envisioning a future that definitely had this aspect covered. And then something changed over the last 6 to 7 years. I started revisiting the idea very often. I went through all phases - planning according to my age and our finances (looks like I wasn't good at keeping up with my plan 😛), considering adoption or fostering to cite a few. But I knew th...